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Planning for Holidays, Travel and Celebrations

Plan for one event or trip. Choose what matters about attending, confirm the arrangements you need, and give yourself an alternative if those arrangements change.

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Original worked example: a family celebration

DecisionFictional plan
Why I want to goSpend time with my cousins at the meal.
What I will sayNo thanks, I am having something else.
Support I have asked forAlex agreed to meet me outside if I want a break.
TravelI have my own return ride arranged.
If plans changeLeave earlier or meet a cousin another day.

Before an event or journey

A specific request helps a trusted person understand what support you want. SAMHSA describes asking for practical help, company or listening rather than assuming someone knows what is needed.

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My event or trip

What I am choosing and why
Where/when; the part I want to participate in; what I may decline.
Arrangements to confirm
Care/medicine questions, travel, accommodation, costs or access; who can confirm each.
Support and words I want ready
A confirmed contact/check-in; one response to an invitation or question. Use AH-R150 for contact details.
If the plan changes
An alternative activity, route home, or person/service to contact.

Sources and Further Reading

  1. SAMHSA: How to Ask for Help

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